If, like me, you’re a parent who enjoys a fancy dinner out while traveling, you have no doubt faced this dilemma: either leave the kids in a hotel with a babysitter you’ve only just met, or schlep them along. I’m here to advocate for the schlep. And that’s despite the fact that my two children aren’t the best companions at a pricey multicourse meal.
My wife and I choose to live on this edge because, sometimes, we can’t miss a certain restaurant. Sure, the artistry behind a perfectly plated dish may be lost on our little ones, but my five-year-old still talks about a “gelato cake with a cherry” from one of the many Roman trattorias we dined in last year. I’ll admit I have no recollection of that particular dessert, but I’m grateful that she will remember it forever.
Now that our kids have met more sommeliers than the average elementary schooler, here are a few of the lessons we’ve learned — and some tips from other parents — on making the most of eating out while traveling.
1. Choose Kid-Friendly Restaurants
- Look for restaurants with a relaxed atmosphere, kid-friendly menus, and high chairs. Many places cater to families and may even offer coloring sheets or small toys to keep kids entertained.
2. Research Local Cuisine in Advance
- Introduce your kids to the local cuisine before your trip. This can help them feel more adventurous and willing to try new foods. Look for dishes that are mild and familiar to their tastes.
3. Pack Snacks and Essentials
- Bring along snacks, especially if you’re unsure about the food options. Also, pack essentials like wet wipes, bibs, and small toys or books to keep kids occupied while waiting for food.
4. Dine During Off-Peak Hours
- Eating earlier or later than the usual rush hours can make the experience more relaxed. Restaurants are often less crowded, and staff can give your family more attention.
5. Opt for Outdoor Seating
- Outdoor seating is often more kid-friendly, as it allows children to move around a bit without disturbing others. It’s also a great way to enjoy the local ambiance.
6. Involve Kids in the Experience
- Let kids choose their meals or try local specialties. Encourage them to ask questions about the food or culture, making the meal an educational experience.
7. Be Prepared for Picky Eaters
- If your child is a picky eater, look for restaurants that offer familiar options like pasta, rice, or bread. Many places are willing to accommodate simple requests.
8. Keep Meals Short and Sweet
- Kids have shorter attention spans, so aim for quicker meals or choose restaurants where food is served promptly. Avoid long, multi-course meals unless your kids are patient.
9. Explore Food Markets or Street Food
- Food markets and street vendors offer a variety of options, allowing kids to try small portions of different foods. It’s also a more casual and interactive dining experience.
10. Teach Dining Etiquette
- Use the opportunity to teach kids about local dining customs and table manners. This can be a fun way to engage them in the culture.
11. Look for Play Areas
- Some restaurants, especially in family-friendly destinations, have play areas or activities for kids. This can make the dining experience more enjoyable for everyone.
12. Be Flexible and Patient
- Traveling with kids requires flexibility. If a meal doesn’t go as planned, stay calm and adapt. Sometimes, a quick snack or takeout can save the day.
13. Celebrate Local Treats
- Let kids enjoy local desserts or treats as a reward for trying new foods. Gelato in Italy, churros in Spain, or crepes in France can make the experience special.
14. Use Dining as a Break
- Plan meals around your sightseeing schedule to give kids a chance to rest and recharge. A relaxed meal can be a great way to break up a busy day.
15. Encourage Cultural Exploration
- Use mealtime as an opportunity to teach kids about the culture and history of the destination. Share stories about the food, its origins, and how it’s prepared.
Don’t forget.
A few little things can make a big impact: a crumb-catching bib for toddlers was a lifesaver for us when our kids were younger. These days, we ask for a corner table — or even better, one on a patio — where our family can have more room and avoid any tsk-tsk glances from other diners.
